Is Your Mate a Healthy Soul Fit?
Updated: Aug 9, 2018
No matter if you are in day one of a new relationship, or have been married for decades, there is always soul exchange happening in every relationship. Question is....are you in a healthy relationship that is contributing to each others soul happiness and health? Or are you in a relationship that is draining and depleting your energies and wellbeing?
Only you can get real with you on where things really are in your relationships right now. Good news is that you can decide at any time to improve your energy and intuitive awareness to be a healthier communicator, so you can begin to ask for and create better.
Ask yourself......Am I really the healthiest soul partner for my ideal mate? Tough question, but wow if you can go there and get honest about taking better care of your life habits, body, or prioritizing more emotional balance and care, or more mental space to be more available for a healthy relationship then you can open awareness about what choices could get you there.
As an intuitive relationship coach, I see a lot of clients just shut down or go into autopilot in bad relationships, which is often from deeper patterns of hurt or loss from their past. This is not wrong or bad, but it is not fun. Or healthy, or happy. And unfortunately it can cost you energetically to keep 'going along' or worse play the blame game.
If you are reading this then you are quite possibly on the fence about where things are, or are seeking to improve your soul connection in your relationship (which is a good).
Even if you are not sure what healthy change entails just yet, setting your intention to be the best you in your relationship will do one of two things. It will either open a new space of positive improvement in your current relationship, or it will give you more clarity that it is time to move on.
Asking the universe to bring you the insights, helpful support, understanding and courage to change are all very useful as well.
Often most people are working backwards in relationships, contorting themselves to fit into each other beliefs and expectations. This does not go well. After facilitating thousands of intuitive relationship sessions with one or both partners aspiring to better their relationships, one thing is for certain. Once you get conscious about where you are and choose to be your most authentic you in all of your relationships, the sooner the best and healthiest soul love can come your way.