In a social media perception driven society, ig, fb or pinterest posts are not always what they seem. Self love is not always a happy looking photo or scene that portrays a desired image. Although some are clearly legit, only you know what is 'looking happy' to achieve acceptance and what is a real internal measure reflecting a soul aligned state of self love.
Many seek external comforts and relationships to determine an outside measure of self love or worth. Again self love can fall short until we are willing to seek a deeper, more authentic truth and soul connected experience from within first. Learning how to cultivate love from the inside out, is the key to getting your glow on.
Another area that can blur self love awareness is when your sense of identity relies too heavily upon family reinforcement of value which again can fall very short since it is dependent upon constant outside approval.
Not that family does not have its invaluable loving place for us all. It can definitely contribute to incredible positive experience and support. Yet cultivating self love is a solo job to do alone. Then you take that love back to contribute to family from the real you, not the expected you.
Only you know what makes you really happy. Some ask "maybe when my life does x, y, z, then I will feel love-happy-enough?" Even monetary or 'thing' goals can fall short in creating a sense of satisfaction or worthiness, that was supposed to make you, more you...right?
So then, what will create a sense of self love and worth? It's really a non-physical experience we are all seeking to stay aligned in. And the irony is that its free. Self love is an ongoing choice, just as happiness and success are ongoing choices we are all free to make. Easier said than done with all of the past limiting experiences, trauma, fears and expectations conditioning that most have decades of resist built up from.
This is where intuitive development can come in to heal the past and better connect or re-connect the soul with the mind and body. Doing this creates a core alignment that supports greater healthy self awareness and boundaries with others. And when done in a healthy way, can truly cultivate intuitive lifestyle success.
3 Tips To Improve Your Self Love
1- Prioritizing Daily ALONE Time To Honor Yourself
This can be as simple as daily meditation or quiet time to walk, be in the garden, or do anything that allows you to quiet the mind and go within. Time everyday and alone are both key to give you the uninfluenced space of being present and real with yourself. Here you can set ongoing intentions to deepen your relationship with yourself and strengthen your core.
2- Getting Clear On What You Really Love
What really equates to feeling good and love will be a very different definition for each of us. Again most are seeking outside partners and families approval, in a way that can edit or change what is acceptable for us to ask for and receive. As you develop a deeper relationship with who you really are and what you really desire, then you can begin to receive and be that in the world.
3- Staying Flexible As You Grow
As you move through different stages of growth in your life, what habits and choices have worked up to now may be good for a while but will continually change as your understanding of yourself expands. Becoming conscious and realizing your potential makes you experience everyone and everything in a way that will demand new choices. This is where real love begins and every relationship can improve around you.
Aligning with self love is a lifetime practice, which is what we are all really here on earth to experience. If you have this daily practice down and truly love yourself then wonderful and shine on for the world. If you are curious how you could be better, consider intuitive coaching to improve your intuitive body-mind connection so you can tap in to love all of you and begin to live more of your highest potential.
Cathleen Miller
intuitivelifestylesuccess.com
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